Personally I have always kept a soft distance from too loud people as when I hear them talk, I feel an unheard melancholy in my soul and an uncomfortable vibe in my surroundings. As they talk without thinking. They talk with their tongues and empty minds. They talk just to reply without regarding their opponents.

This is so painful for many as mere words can kill a person and hurt them badly. Many of us are not able to relate their woes or feelings with everyone.

They are particular with whom to open & with whom not to open or share their unheard melancholy. As silent people have a lot more to say than the loud ones.

I do not disapprove random murmurings and care free social gatherings as you get to know someone after 2 to 3 sittings.

Every one has that basic instinct that hints you with the presence of someone Either you get attracted to someone or are distracted. Yet there are many with covered layers of multiple faces. The player types. They can get their ways out. Neither they open much nor show their true colours. They are stabbed. They hit from behind..

You might have definitely come across such minds with hidden benefits. There attacks are more powerful and hurt the souls which are hard to heal. As they shatter the personality of a person. We might grow out of that agony but the scars always remain and bleed to unbearable pain when scratched down by memory lane😢.The unheard melancholies hunt us through out our lives if not shared with someone.

If we respect the comfort zone of each individual and try not to cross that border line we might be less likely to get hurt.

The status quo of a relation does not stiffens or breaks.

We should initiate in lending a helping hand to hurtful soul and raise their moral. We should be the hearing ones, empathetic to see into the people rather than looking at appearance.

As appearances deceive a lot…….. Kindness is the tool of and for humanity………………. Be mindful, kind and just be humane. 💕