Recurring apologies and words of gratitude are the most commonly taught ethical words to toddlers are SORRY and Thank You. These words are repeated so many times that they have lost their true spirit and meanings. We say sorry just like that. Similarly we say please to please anyone:I mean anyone!!!!😄😄
Though text books are the best and comprehensive sources of gaining, learning and implementing knowledge:once we entre into practical lives, it is a whole new world once again waiting to be discovered and learn through different perspective and phases of life, that is through our SENSES.
Books teach us theoretical concepts of various subjects.While senses are being gifted from the Almighty. They enable us to look through, feel & act properly in society. We must be wise enough to use our blessings properly.
“To err is humane and to forgive is divine”, Many of us might have read this phrase. Only a few might remember it and some might act on it. Why? Because we fail to understand that this is a theory which needs to be implemented practically with our actions. We must give benefits of doubts to our companions, friends, spouses, relatives etc, that there must be a reason for their particular negative behaviour. If an apology is accepted but denied from the other party than this forgiveness is being taken for granted!! Again there might be many reasons depending upon the bond two or more individuals share between them and the mutual understanding they possess.
Sometimes apologies come from strangers, due to some x, y, z, reason. It’s quite acceptable and one must be humble and kind enough not to make an issue over it.
In relationships there is always rooms for improvement and growth. The boundary line though invisible but is very fine. We must understand this line. The relation or issues should not be dragged to the extent of a breakdown in any ways. Be it psychological, moral, ethical or social. The emotions a human being has been gifted with are very intricate, delicate and extremely sensitive. They should be nurtured with care and affection. That’s how healthy nations are built.As what goes around, comes around😊
To say sorry for something you are not even sorry about does not matter at all. What matters is the changed behaviour after the apology. 💕
