We hear people say that the first impression is always the last impression.Therefore all of us try make an attempt to give our best selves while interacting with some one for the first time;mostly at work areas or hosting an event at a particular place.
Have we ever thought for a moment what it might have taken for a person to put his/her best version on others to leave a lasting impact??
I think the answer is NO,we don’t.Its quite normal and acceptable to some extent but personally speaking I find it rather uncomfortable and unconvincing that how can our first impressions be the final ones?!
We as humans go through many pyschological changes and emotional phases during our life span.If we cannot give our best shot the first time,one should not underestimate or undermine the capibilities someone possess as one discouraging blow/comment can go a far way.
There’s always room for growth and improvement.
If we are superior or at an authoritative position to dictate our subordinates then we should give them initiative to grow,space to nurture and ways to prove that they are not worthless in any way.They may be weak at one thing;but might be able to put their best potential at something else.
I strongly feel one of the major causes for anxiety,depression and stress in the world today is looking down on others,making them feel low,bad and tearing their self esteem into pieces just within the nip of a second by mere utterance of words from our mouths! 😔.
Human beings are created equal, with same set of basic resources but different cultural backgrounds and ethnicities.The mould is the same.So here’s a little promise from myself that I shall not belittle any one no matter what the situation is.✋🏼
Even the negative souls can be mended with little gestures of kindness and humbleness.
Can you all make this promise with youselves?? Worth a try!👍🏼 😊