Atttude defines your personality. They are our bill boards,defining our main features like our frequency,comfort zone ,accessibility etc.I have an interesting incident to quote here in this regard:
When my sister was young she liked this small chair in a mall. Since she was too young to explain her self, she kept her hand on it and looked at my father. Instead of refusing her he brought her something else so that she might forget about the chair. But to everyone’s surprise she laid flat on the ground just besides the chair holding it. She did not cry, nor shout, nor did she throw a tantrum. Silently she made her point clear that she WANTED the chair & nothing else!!
This is Attitude.How about it? It’s been many years and still this is one the famous and favorite of childhood incidents we recall. Imagine how a little child made her point clear through her own way and little intellect on what she really wanted.
Attitudes are not taught. They are built in like memory chips of computer, mobiles and other gadgets. They are nurtured with the environment a human being is brought up in. Believe you me it’s cent per cent true that circumstances are the most powerful and effective tools on human minds. They make or break a person. By birth no one is a criminal or a bad person. They are born naturally with the same kind of beliefs, thoughts, perceptions, dreams and aims.
What is needed the most, is to accept the negative behaviours of the broken ones in order to bring out the best of them.We need strong individuals in society either in form of parents, elders, teachers, mentors, close associates to make a positive impact on various behaviours in order to see their next generation kids with positive behaviours towards achieving their goals in life.
What matters is how you tackle with a tantrum thrown over by a youngster. This is where our knowledge & experiences is put on a litmus paper!
There a saying that goes:
A little kind ripple goes a long way.
Moral of this saying is, if you save a life even once in your lifetime from a disasterous condition by just a little helping hand, lending your shoulder or even just by smiling. It all goes a long way in changing his/her life in ways even the ones being there at that particular moment might never know.
Coming towards the current scenario of the whole world today , we all need to be little giving, forgiving, kind, simple and adaptable to the sudden & unexpectable situations. Being connected with the basics and expecting little from surroundings, concentrating on haves rather than might have would eventually change the way of our thoughts, give us new directions and may be open new horizons to conquest,we had never come across.Now we have the quality time to ponder over matters with different vision and goals. We can make a difference in an unusual way.
Come on & get up share that beautiful smile of yours, your precious time, your lovely thoughts, skills, your motivation words or a tender touch with that sad stranger sitting around the corner of a house or street and make his/her day. 😊😊
Change your attitudes, spread & share positive vibes around you. In return you will definitely receive even better form of an attitude. 💞
